Advice please... Caring For Teenage Girls!

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Advice please... Caring For Teenage Girls!

Post  mandarin32 on Thu 16 Feb 2012, 6:01 am

Hey Girls/Guys,

I am looking after a 13 year old teenage girl in Western Europe and she has started being a rude pain in my butt. Her parents are away a lot so I step in as sole carer. She has just started not listening to me at all, wont do anything I ask, she is snappy and has a harsh tone of voice. The family is wealthy and I feel for her as her parents are away so much she doesnt get the attention she needs from them. But I would like some advice please, has anyone else had this problem? How do I remind her she is the child without making her feel like she is 4?!
Thank you!!! x
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piece of advice

Post  honeymom on Fri 17 Feb 2012, 5:21 am

hi Mandarin. My name is Arlene, a Filipina.
here's a piece of advice... stay sweet to her, and always shown her the love & care which i know she's longing it to her parents.... "reverse psychology" is the right word, sooner, she will realized how caring to her....have faith in God and believe in your strength, don't loose hope....i'll pray for you my new friend!


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what happened?

Post  Guest on Thu 14 Jun 2012, 8:08 am

Hello!

How did you solve the situation? My teenage girl ha the same attitude towards everything. She is always typing on her phone and never even answers anyone... But sometimes she is nice. I try to be friendly with her but it's not easy.

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